Remembering a friend

Yesterday I was up on Exmoor at our Holnicote Estate to remember a colleague and friend who died unexpectedly a few months ago. Andy Mayled was the General Manager for the National Trust in Somerset. Around 90 colleagues, friends and members of his family gathered to celebrate his life and remember his achievements. Our Regional Director Mark Harold gave a short speech highlighting many of Andy’s successes from his 30 year career with the National Trust. The overall conclusion was that he was a thoroughly good chap, with a great sense of humour who had made a real difference in conserving nature and outdoor places.

Andy and I regularly ‘chewed the cud’ over various things – how to raise the profile of the outdoors and nature and we compared notes on managing land in our respective National Parks. I remember well spending a day (albeit a very rainy one) in the Plym Valley on Dartmoor a few years ago a couple of days before my wife died unexpectedly – Andy was a good friend to me after that and the cruel irony was that I had planned to spend a day with Andy on Exmoor a couple of days after he died.

After the gathering yesterday I went to a few of the iconic places that Andy looked after to reflect and remember. Here are a few photos from the day.

Down to PorlockDown to Porlock

Up to Dunkery BeaconAcross to Horner Woods and Dunkery Beacon – the National Trust owns practically all of that landscape (and much more on Exmoor)

Horner WoodsDown into Horner Woods

From Dunkery to MineheadThe amazing view from Dunkery Beacon across to Minehead

Trig point to Dartmoor

The trig point at the Beacon pointing back to Dartmoor (Cawsand Beacon is now called Cosdon Hill – a place our 10 Tors teams went last weekend)

The BeaconSome young people I met enjoying the view at Dunkery Beacon

HighlandA highland cow chilling out

Like so many others I will miss Andy

7 thoughts on “Remembering a friend

  1. Hi Adrian – just read your blog ‘Remembering a Friend’. I too was at Holnicote to remember Andy – I worked with him at Sherborne as his Property Administrator and he has been a close friend since. Sorry I didn’t get to meet you and share some good memories of a great guy whose passion and love of the countryside was a joy to share with him. Great photos – I too after out time at Holnicote House, went to several places on the estate which also held special memories of time with Andy and I took a series of pictures – Bossington, Selworthy etc. He will be missed in so many ways – a great loss in our lives.

  2. Hi Adrian, your photos are stunning. Sorry I didn’t get to meet you at Andy’s memorial , it was all a bit overwhelming – but I’ve heard a lot about you!
    The grieving process is a long hard journey…I wish you well.
    Lindsey Mayled.

    • Hello Lindsey – thank you for your kind comments. Sorry too I didnt meet you at Holnicote. Good luck on your journey – keep your friends and family close and give yourself time – time is an amazing healer.

  3. It is through your blog that I am shocked to learn that Andy is no longer with us. I was at college with Andy and Lindsey and a more lovely couple you could never meet. My heart goes out to you Lindsey. Your pictures are lovely, Adrian. You too knew Andy well and know how much such scenes meant to him in his tireless work to protect the countryside. I’m now in New Zealand and as Andy did, try to do my bit to make the planet a better place. RIP Andy, my memories are very fond.

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